RELATIONSHIPS

Hey people!!
Have you ever wondered what relationships are?
Well, this is what i've experienced and would love to share my thoughts with all you people. Relationships are so beautiful and are formed by persons willfully with love and care for each other. It isn't something that is created when we are born...

We love many people around us and we wait for them to love us back. But, a true relationship is something which expects nothing from each other...


Being what we truly are and doing what we always do with the person is the base of a really genuine relationship. If we try and adjust and change, just to please the person and to earn the person's goodwill, then we will have to continue the pretence forever...
Sometimes we like someone very much and would like to share moments with the person..

But what is that hindrance that prevents us from expressing our care and affection to that person? Ego? Prestige? So called fallacies of the man made emotions? Why do we create such things in ourselves, which only causes agony in us? Many feel that if they show the other person how important he/she is, then they would no longer be important to that person or they would not be treated with that respect they always had..
But isn't it always the other way round?

People today are trying to achieve so many things that i thought was almost impossible. But, when i see the broken relaionships of these people, I really wonder what their academic achievement would mean to them if their social life is almost nil. So, why don't we give ourselves sometime and think of the people around us...

Well, as all of us know, here is a vast difference between SURVIVING and LIVING..
If a person thinks only of how he can earn money to run his life and take care of his family, no matter which way he earns, it's surviving..
Instead, if he thinks of how he can earn not just the money, but als a few human values for himself and his family, it's living.

I know a lot of families where children are not cared for.. But, i'm extremely delighted to see the people who rally take care of their kith and kin. But, beyond these family relationships, there is no gnuine relationship. Why is that? I feel personally that, people usually think they are not so important to others in the society. So, when all of us think this way, we naturally become unimportant to others...

I've known that people in the US and all other well-developed countries are having great oppurtunities for a better living. But, it is so disheartening to hear what i just heard. In the workspots, people arenot cordial to others at all. Well, i'm young and do not have much of a working experience. But, i heard from one of my pals that her colleagues are all sweet-sweet in the office. But, when the work time is over, the relationship is also over. Is this because they are scared that we might take advantage of them if we get close to each other? Well, if so scared of attachment, then how will there be a true relationship?

Well, I'm starting to learn things now.. And i surely hope that this world is actually getting better....Hope all of you feel the same way too...
Relationships and attachmentsare the only things tha keep humankind alive for eternity, irrespective of life and death.
So, love your family, your friends, your siblings, your children, the people around you and MOST IMPORTANTLY, LOVE YOURSELF!!!


As you love yourself, The world will love you

Athiya.